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AJ, who is currently dieting, says that "it's one thing if a guy rejects you because your personalities don't match or you have a habit he doesn't care for, but those are all things you can't do anything about — that's your personality, that's you.
But when a guy rejects you because of how you look, it hurts more, because it's something you can change and it's something you can't change fast enough to please him."But are the stereotypes true?
Wendy Wimmer, a popular "weight acceptance" blogger, says, "the bumper sticker says it all: 'no fat chicks.' I have a lot of guy friends and they kind of forget that I'm a chick sometimes, so I have a glimpse into this male mindset, and I see the societal expectation for them to have a trophy girlfriend."Jenny (not her real name) rarely dated when she was in college or in her early twenties. "All my friends would be getting chased, and I wouldn't."AJ Feuerman, a graduate student at the University of Southern California, has had similar struggles:"I have had a couple guys tell me that they didn't want to date me because of [my weight].
I had one guy tell me health is such an issue that he couldn't imagine being with someone who looked so unhealthy.
Even though there are more overweight women than ever before, there is great cultural stigma surrounding curvy women wanting love, or worse, sex."The one thing I like about fat girls is that they'll always [sleep with] you," is what Rhiannon* heard a guy say when walking near a strip of bars popular among the college crowd in her city.
"I personally had a good six months of being a total tramp in my early 20s," she says."I see these bigger girls out at clubs or at coffee shops, and they'll just throw themselves at anyone who looks their way" says Wendy Wimmer.
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