Dating too soon after divorce
It’s so wonderful to find a new love, especially after you’ve been through so much pain and loss.
But in order to get to the point where you’re truly ready to take this journey, you should ask yourself many questions. As these questions indicate, this journey of self-discovery takes a great deal of introspection.
The rebound relationship can be dangerous territory for the newly divorced woman… We may be feeling insecure when it comes to our self-worth, our sexuality, and our value on the “secondary dating market.” We may not look before we leap, or we imagine feelings that aren’t reciprocated.
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Eighteen months after my marriage ended, I jumped into a heady, sexually intense year-long relationship with a fellow writer and parent who was 20 years older than I was.
His fine qualities were all I allowed myself to see, as I threw myself into a relationship that had serious issues. I was blissful in his capacity for emotional intimacy.
I fell hard and fast, and was heartbroken when the relationship ended, though I knew it had no long term future.
“But I said to myself, ‘I hope this girl can find time to process it all.